I know how it feels on some level. I've had a lot of people assuming I'm in a bad mood or frustrated about something because my mom died. Sometimes, sure, that's it. But not always. Sometimes, I'm just in a bad mood. Or another is I'm not drinking because I'm being a snob. Sometimes, people can be dicks, but they don't always mean to be.
There's a million and one different reasons to be in a bad headspace. And like you said, it's not always intentionally being a jerk. It just happens that way.
My other half gets really shitty when he's getting a migraine. Sweet as pie any other time, but sort of demons-out when he's not feeling well. Sometimes, life is just a pain in the ass.
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