Just keep your options open. You never know. I never knew what was coming for me next, I could never have seen it coming. Sleep a lot, work on some music, time with my family and friends. Don't get me wrong, we have a really healthy sex life. It's just ours, so we make it what we want it to be. A lot of people think asexuality is just hating sex, end of story. They think it's just black and white.