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Dr. Sam Campbell ([personal profile] breakablehearts) wrote in [community profile] dreamlikenewyork2013-10-06 12:51 am
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How's he doing, and what's the game plan?
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[personal profile] aussielawyer 2013-10-05 03:02 pm (UTC)(link)
He spent most of the past couple of days sleeping or lying in his bed. Today, he's up and about, but subdued and sticking close to me. The game plan is to see if he's open to seeing a psychiatrist himself or if he wants Nathan to consult with one. After that, meds and probably some therapy.
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[personal profile] breakablehearts 2013-10-05 03:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Just exhaustion from everything going on, or do you think it's his condition? I'm glad he's up. Want me to bring something around for lunch. We can have it together. Nathan's excellent with kids, that might be the better option. Did he say what meds?
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[personal profile] aussielawyer 2013-10-05 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's a mix of both. Ever since be broke down outside the hospital, he's just wanted to sleep. I don't know if he was asleep the whole time with Will, but they were definitely resting together. Yeah, that would be awesome, Sammy. He mentioned lithium and valproate. Anything we put him on could have a lot of side effects, so he'll need to be monitored. I don't want to scare him, but I know he needs it. I should have a ruling on his custody by the end of the week too. Judge is fast-tracking it for me in light of the diagnosis.
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[personal profile] breakablehearts 2013-10-05 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
It's been a rollercoaster for him since he decided to come find you, mate. All us Campbells have a tendency of shutting down after emotional stress. If he wants to sleep, let him. Like you said, his condition disrupts his sound sleep anyway, so if he's resting, he needs it. They will have side effects, he'll need to let you guys know if anything odd happens. Is Gen okay with it all? I know it's all or nothing for her, which can't be an easy choice for her. I'll get you some clinical info sheets on the possible meds. Thank fuck for that. I know you'll feel better having it all legal.
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[personal profile] aussielawyer 2013-10-05 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
That's what I was thinking. He was supposed to start school on Monday, but I'm wondering if it's better to keep him off until he gets more stabilised with this. Bad side effects? She's been amazing. I wouldn't have blamed her one bit if she wanted to cut her losses. His own mum didn't give a fuck, but I want him to know that Gen does. She and I are in the same boat here, we have no fucking clue how to deal with this. But we want to help him. Yeah, I need to have the reigns over this for my own sanity.
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[personal profile] breakablehearts 2013-10-05 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
If he's unwell, keep him off, but maybe have a chat to the school? Let them know what's going on, ask if they have any support programs for kids in his boat. Isn't young Will in a similar position? He would have missed a lot of school with the cancer treatment. You and Gen are both doing a great job here, Marky. It's not an easy one. Do you want me to come along with you for the hearing?
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[personal profile] aussielawyer 2013-10-05 03:34 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a good idea. I didn't think about that. It's the best school I could find nearby but it's probably going to be a culture shock for him coming from a public school that was utter shit. Yeah, he is. Luke was telling me a bit about it when he came around yesterday. Sammy, what do I do if Justin and Will want to hook up... you know, as more than friends? Fuck no, it's not easy. It's one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Yes, I do. Thanks, mate.
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[personal profile] breakablehearts 2013-10-05 04:08 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't have to rush him into anything. But definitely keep the lines of communication open with the school. Maybe there is a chance he has some classes with Will, which might help him. Make sure he knows you're okay with it, make sure he has condoms, and make sure he knows he can talk to you, or any of us if he has questions. Ready or not, Marky, if he's finally admitting he's gay, he's going to want to act on it sooner or later. Maybe you need to sit him down and have a talk. Hey, I know you. You'll go in fighting whether you know what you're doing or not, just like you did with Jamie once you got better.
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[personal profile] aussielawyer 2013-10-05 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
That's the last thing I want. He's got a so far untreated mental illness that has already had serious consequences. I really think Will has been a positive influence on him. THE Talk? How do I give THE Talk to a gay son I never knew I had? I was going to give him condoms. Do you think I should?
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[personal profile] breakablehearts 2013-10-05 04:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, he has. Which needs to take priority. But it's also known that school can be a good stimulant for the brain, and it might be just want he needs. Especially if he has Will as a buffer, and his friend Toby. You give THE Talk like any father with a son has to give... probably somewhat awkwardly, but you do the best you can. It's not like you're completely oblivious and clueless to what gay sex involves. I know you've done anal, Marky :P Yes, absolutely. And don't wait on it either. You don't know when he'll be ready to try sex with a guy, you might not even know when he does either. It's your job as a dad to make sure he's prepared.
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