"Was it just sex or more? That's where you have to start. Sex when you're drunk is a grey area because it doesn't necessarily mean anything more than getting off while you're drunk. But if you remember it all and you remember how you felt, then that's a big clue. You're here telling us and you've been talking to Justin. I think you're at least bi. Then again... you've had relationships with guys and you were never quite sure it stuck. How did sex with a guy compare to sex with Layla?" Blaize had been in Amarlie's shoes back when he went in all systems-go on his medical and surgical transition. He discovered he was pansexual when his attractions weren't related to gender at all. Other things came into it for him. He had had been with guys, girls, and NB people, it was all awesome. But that deeper sexual arousal was usually what indicated your sexuality. "You've got good taste, she's freaking gorgeous. If you ever want a three-way, feel free to give me a shout," he added with a grin.